<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Prudence vs Paranoia]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote>
<b>Prudence, paranoia and the white minivan</b> 

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It's easy to see how the whole white van thing got to where it was - because people did exactly what they're supposed to do, and reacted the way they can be expected to act.</p>

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Let's go back to the beginning of the incident at Fancher School. A group of kids - and remember, Fancher houses fifth- and sixth-graders - runs ahead of the rest of the class after outdoor physical education.</p>

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Waiting outside the school in a white minivan is a man who is a substitute teacher for the school district, but who doesn't get assigned to Fancher very much. His wife was subbing at Fancher that day, and he's there to pick her up.</p>

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Being a responsible adult, he speaks to these apparently unsupervised kids. Nothing's wrong.</p>

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<i>But imagine this:</i> One of the kids goes home and tells a parent, "This creepy guy talked to us outside school today."</p>
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If you've been a parent of a sixth-grader, particularly a sixth-grade girl, you'll know that any male over 30 is, by definition, "creepy." But if you're the parent of a sixth-grade girl, and she tells you a "creepy guy" talk to her outside school, you'd be a responsible adult and make sure the school administration knew about it.</p>

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The school administration, being responsible, would then gather information about what happened. Maybe there was a threat, maybe not, but it's prudent to let police know.</p>

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There's enough weird stuff going on that it's best to err on the side of caution.</p>
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It's also prudent to give parents a clue. Imagine the headlines if something really were amiss: SCHOOL KNEW ABOUT THREAT, DID NOTHING - subhead: SEARCH FOR MISSING GIRL CONTINUES</p>

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No, let's get the police on board and notify parents. That's prudent and responsible.</p>
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As soon as the note from school went home, the Sun began to get phone calls and message-board postings from people - good parents who wanted to be responsible - who wanted to know more about the incident. The newspaper did the responsible thing, gathered what information there was, and presented it.</p>

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The police did the responsible thing and increased patrols around Fancher.</p>
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In short order, police identified a possible suspect, but determined there was no wrongdoing. That, too, was made public.</p>
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Finally, the actual guy in the actual white minivan comes forward and tells what happened. Now it all fits, and it's all perfectly harmless.</p>
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What strikes me is that everyone did the responsible thing. We were looking out for one another. Every single move was aimed at keeping our kids safe.</p>

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And our kids are safe, because we look out for them.</p>

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<a href="http://the-morning-sun.blogspot.com/2009/05/prudence-paranoia-and-white-minivan.html" rel="external nofollow">prudent</a></p>
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So in your opinion is the involvement of the school and the police driven from fear and paranoia or were they being prudent?</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/topic/10399/prudence-vs-paranoia</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2026 11:56:08 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://brownsboard.com/topic/10399.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 00:58:58 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Prudence vs Paranoia on Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:35:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Having been a bodyguard escort for our friends' kids in a more sinister situation,</p>

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it was prudent to follow up on a kids' report, prudently.</p>

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   Anymore, you don't know. I don't know why he went out of his way to talk to the</p>

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kids, though, he isn't in a position of authority, ...</p>

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it would have made more sense to have just observed, and only intervened if</p>

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the kids started fighting one kid - or something.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/158549</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/158549</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[calfoxwc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:35:49 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>