<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Obama signs memorandum]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/04/15/Obama_Signs_Hospital_Visitation_Memorandum/" rel="external nofollow">http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/20...ion_Memorandum/</a></p>


<blockquote>President Barack Obama signed a memorandum Thursday requiring hospitals to allow gays and lesbians to have nonfamily visitors and allowing their partners medical power of attorney.
<p>
The memorandum orders the Department of Health and Human Services to prohibit discrimination in hospital visitation. The memo was posted on the White House website Thursday afternoon.</p>

<p>
Reads the memorandum: “Often, a widow or widower with no children is denied the support and comfort of a good friend. Members of religious orders are sometimes unable to choose someone other than an immediate family member to visit them and make medical decisions on their behalf. Also uniquely affected are gay and lesbian Americans who are often barred from the bedsides of the partners with whom they may have spent decades of their lives — unable to be there for the person they love, and unable to act as a legal surrogate if their partner is incapacitated.”</p>

<p>
A White House official told The Washington Post the memorandum will affect any hospital that receives Medicare or Medicaid funding.</p>
</blockquote>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/topic/11170/obama-signs-memorandum</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2026 12:18:20 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://brownsboard.com/topic/11170.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 17:30:01 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Mon, 19 Apr 2010 02:00:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote>...ensure that hospitals that participate in Medicare<p>
or Medicaid respect the rights of patients to designate</p>
<p>
visitors. <b>It should be made clear that designated visitors,</b></p>
<p>
including individuals designated by legally valid advance</p>
<p>
directives (such as durable powers of attorney and health care</p>
<p>
proxies), should enjoy visitation privileges that are no more</p>
<p>
restrictive than those that immediate family members enjoy.</p>
<p>
You should also provide that participating hospitals may not</p>
<p>
deny visitation privileges on the basis of race, color, national</p>
<p>
origin, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, or</p>
<p>
disability. The rulemaking should take into account the need</p>
<p>
for hospitals to restrict visitation in medically appropriate</p>
<p>
circumstances as well as the clinical decisions that medical</p>
<p>
professionals make about a patient's care or treatment.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>
And, yes, I do believe that Obama is saying something about our nation's bigoted stance toward our gay citizens.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168833</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168833</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[VaporTrail]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 02:00:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Mon, 19 Apr 2010 01:33:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>and if someone wants to visit, and the patient is incapacitated to reject the visit on that</p>

<p>
NON FAMILY PERSON?</p>

<p>
  Any yahoo who wants to get a will changed can go visit somebody for whatever reason, then.</p>

<p>
gay relationships are NOT FAMILY. They are FRIENDS. NOT LEGAL COMPANIONS in terms of being</p>

<p>
responsible, etc etc.</p>

<p>
  Now, if you want to have a legal document that designates who can come visit you unrestricted ahead of time,</p>

<p>
in the hospital, regardless of the situation, I'm fine with that.</p>

<p>
  Wouldn't that simply solve the problem? Or, is the real intention to change society's views on all things warped and radical one bit at a time?</p>

<p>
  I think the latter.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168828</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168828</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[calfoxwc]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 01:33:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sun, 18 Apr 2010 17:27:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, you're correct.  It just allows everyone the right to designate who can visit.</p>

<p>
Straight from the memorandum:</p>

<blockquote>...ensure that hospitals that participate in Medicare<p>
or Medicaid respect the rights of patients to designate</p>
<p>
visitors. It should be made clear that designated visitors,</p>
<p>
including individuals designated by legally valid advance</p>
<p>
directives (such as durable powers of attorney and health care</p>
<p>
proxies), should enjoy visitation privileges that are no more</p>
<p>
restrictive than those that immediate family members enjoy.</p>
<p>
You should also provide that participating hospitals may not</p>
<p>
deny visitation privileges on the basis of race, color, national</p>
<p>
origin, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, or</p>
<p>
disability. The rulemaking should take into account the need</p>
<p>
for hospitals to restrict visitation in medically appropriate</p>
<p>
circumstances as well as the clinical decisions that medical</p>
<p>
professionals make about a patient's care or treatment.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>
I disagree with you on this being undeserving of praise, though.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168791</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168791</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[VaporTrail]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 17:27:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sun, 18 Apr 2010 12:25:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/vaportrail" aria-label="Profile: vaportrail">@<bdi>vaportrail</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168738">said</a>:</p>Yes, but you would have had the option to marry that woman, thus bypassing all of this.  Gays don't get that luxury.</blockquote>

<p>
<b>That's true.</b></p>
<p>
But Obama was (and is I assume) opposed to gay marriage.</p>
<p>
And this memorandum is meaningless on that front.</p>

<p>
There's nothing here to blast him or praise him for.</p>

<p>
WSS</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168756</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168756</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Westside Steve]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 12:25:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sun, 18 Apr 2010 04:29:45 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/vaportrail" aria-label="Profile: vaportrail">@<bdi>vaportrail</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168738">said</a>:</p>Yes, but you would have had the option to marry that woman, thus bypassing all of this.  Gays don't get that luxury.</blockquote>


<p>
Either way it is merely paperwork.  It isn't like you don't have to meet with a representative and file for a marriage licence.  Honestly a majority of this argument is already in place with the same paperwork requirements that are needed to get married in the first place.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168745</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168745</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[smalls1129]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 04:29:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sun, 18 Apr 2010 02:27:14 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Yes, but you would have had the option to marry that woman, thus bypassing all of this.  Gays don't get that luxury.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168738</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168738</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[VaporTrail]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 02:27:14 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 23:39:04 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/vaportrail" aria-label="Profile: vaportrail">@<bdi>vaportrail</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168721">said</a>:</p>No, you only feel it's meaningless because it doesn't affect you.  CNN did a much better article on it
<p>
<a href="http://www.cnn.com/2010/POLITICS/04/15/hospital.gay.visitation/index.html" rel="external nofollow">http://www.cnn.com/2010/POLITICS/04/15/hos...tion/index.html</a></p>

<p>
Try telling that to Janice Langbehn, who wasn't allowed to see her partner of 17 years on her deathbed because she wasn't "family."</p>
</blockquote>

<p>
<b>The point I think you miss is the fact that with a POA or living will one has those rights.</b></p>

<p>
(I'm pretty sure that's the case, It's certainly true for the nearly universally supported civil union, but still, thet's paperwork.)</p>

<p>
Non married straight couples would need that same legal status.</p>
<p>
Non adopted children aren't considered family no matter how long they've lived with a step parent either.</p>

<p>
If I've been living with a woman for say ten years I'm not automatically privy to her legal affairs.</p>

<p>
WSS</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168727</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168727</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Westside Steve]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 23:39:04 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 23:18:59 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/westside-steve" aria-label="Profile: westside-steve">@<bdi>westside-steve</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168719">said</a>:</p>
<b>Be that as it may, this was a pretty meaningless gesture.</b>
<p>
As I said before legal means have been in place for a long time.</p>
<p>
And Bush supported civil unions, same as most everybody else.</p>

<p>
WSS</p>
</blockquote>


<p>
No, you only feel it's meaningless because it doesn't affect you.  CNN did a much better article on it</p>

<p>
<a href="http://www.cnn.com/2010/POLITICS/04/15/hospital.gay.visitation/index.html" rel="external nofollow">http://www.cnn.com/2010/POLITICS/04/15/hos...tion/index.html</a></p>

<p>
Try telling that to Janice Langbehn, who wasn't allowed to see her partner of 17 years on her deathbed because she wasn't "family."</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168721</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168721</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[VaporTrail]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 23:18:59 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 23:13:11 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/diehardbrownsfan" aria-label="Profile: diehardbrownsfan">@<bdi>diehardbrownsfan</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168718">said</a>:</p>OSU you are the biggest phony I have ever seen.</blockquote>

<p>
<b>Be that as it may, this was a pretty meaningless gesture.</b></p>

<p>
As I said before legal means have been in place for a long time.</p>
<p>
And Bush supported civil unions, same as most everybody else.</p>

<p>
WSS</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168719</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168719</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Westside Steve]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 23:13:11 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 22:45:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>OSU you are the biggest phony I have ever seen.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168718</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168718</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[DieHardBrownsFan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 22:45:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 16:48:50 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Obama is on a roll with going after the Coal companies blatantly and now this executive act to get rid of discrimination. Good for him and this is great for a group that is harassed and discriminated against.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168672</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168672</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[osusev]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 16:48:50 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 13:11:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/pumpkin-eater" aria-label="Profile: pumpkin-eater">@<bdi>pumpkin-eater</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168585">said</a>:</p>I actually have one question. Do these rights apply to unmarried straight couples? Or are these special rights exclusive to gays?</blockquote>

<p>
Well, it's a problem such that gays are really the only ones affected, and as it was, they were denied rights that married straight couples had.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168604</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168604</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[VaporTrail]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 13:11:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 12:55:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/heckofajobbrownie" aria-label="Profile: heckofajobbrownie">@<bdi>heckofajobbrownie</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168453">said</a>:</p>That's exactly it. If you've lived with someone for 25 years and you're gay, in much of the country that means you have no legal way to make any of the health care decisions for your partner because, according to the state, your relationship doesn't exist.</blockquote>


<p>
<b>I'm not a lawyer but I assume a living will and or POA would cover those legalities regardless of sexuality.</b></p>

<p>
You do know that non adopted step children aren't considered the legal heirs aren't you?</p>
<p>
WSS</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168601</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168601</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Westside Steve]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 12:55:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 11:14:46 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I actually have one question. Do these rights apply to unmarried straight couples? Or are these special rights exclusive to gays?</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168585</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168585</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Pumpkin Eater]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 11:14:46 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Sat, 17 Apr 2010 01:17:42 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Not very newsworthy imo.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168537</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168537</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Mr. T]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 01:17:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:53:45 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><a class="plugin-mentions-user plugin-mentions-a" href="/user/vaportrail" aria-label="Profile: vaportrail">@<bdi>vaportrail</bdi></a> <a href="/post/168451">said</a>:</p>The big deal is allowing non-family members to act with medical power of attorney.  Seeing as gays can't legally marry in much of the US, this is a big deal for them.</blockquote>

<p>
I meant to say that I don't have a problem.  No big deal 'to me'.</p>

<p>
&lt;-----can't somebody give medical power of attorney to a non-family member?  </p>

<p>
Maybe Gip can chime in on this.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168454</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168454</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chicopee John]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:53:45 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:52:53 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>That's exactly it. If you've lived with someone for 25 years and you're gay, in much of the country that means you have no legal way to make any of the health care decisions for your partner because, according to the state, your relationship doesn't exist.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168453</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168453</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[heckofajobbrownie]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:52:53 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:49:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>The big deal is allowing non-family members to act with medical power of attorney.  Seeing as gays can't legally marry in much of the US, this is a big deal for them.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168451</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168451</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[VaporTrail]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:49:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to Obama signs memorandum on Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:43:39 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>
&gt;&gt;requiring hospitals to allow gays and lesbians to have nonfamily visitors ......&gt;&gt;</p>


<p>
Not sure I understand this part of the notice.</p>

<p>
Is the bottom line is that both straight and gay patients are allowed to have nonfamily members visit them?  In what instance(s) would a straight person be allowed to have nonfamily visitors and a gay person not be allowed the same?</p>

<p>
Curious.   I guess there are more than a few instances where, 'immediate family members only' applies and, now, both straight and gay people in such a condition can have visitors beyond this small circle.</p>

<p>
Sounds like no big deal to me.</p>]]></description><link>https://brownsboard.com/post/168449</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://brownsboard.com/post/168449</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Chicopee John]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:43:39 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>